What does "giving Love" mean?

It is about making the other person happy, pleasing them, going to them, dedicating attention... and – very importantly – doing it in a way that also pleases us. Loving is not a sacrifice or a burden.

Giving Love is a source of joy for oneself. This is how you know the difference between giving love because you want to, or out of duty. If you have any motive for giving Love, it is not Love!

The only motive for giving love is: "because I want to". Any other motive is NOT Love.

It is the only decision that is in our hands – either we give love or we do not. No one has the power to decide to receive love. Receiving love does not depend on us.

There are many ways to give love; each person has their own way of giving love, and it is important to be genuine with yourself so that giving love is always natural.

If I do not give Love, does it mean I do not Love?

It only means you do not want to give. You still Love!

The emotional balance of a couple is closely related to the balance between the "giving Love" of both parties. If only one gives, only the other receives; if neither gives... neither receives; if both give, both receive.

The intensity of giving is also important, but only if these measures are too large and noticeable, at least to one of the parties.

Timing is very important – giving love at the wrong time can cause the gesture to go unnoticed.

The consequences of giving love, in my view, are overvalued. Giving Love does not guarantee that the other will love more, nor does making sacrifices or caring for the other wholeheartedly! "Love is enough for Love" (K. G.)

Giving without expectation is undoubtedly the only thing to do.

Unfortunately, a lot of love falls on deaf ears, but we should not criticize anyone. The important thing is that this does not serve as an excuse. Do not miss any opportunity – it is better to give too much love than too little.

Is it mandatory to give Love?

No! But you will be missing out on a wonderful part of the relationship and of life!

Is it mandatory to give Love back?

No, it is not. But someone will suffer!

Why do I not receive the same Love I give?

Either the other person does not give, or because they have a different measure/rhythm of giving love that you do not understand. The love language one speaks may not be the love language the other hears.

It is important to know the other person, to know what gestures/actions they make when they want to give love. And it should also be a way of receiving love that is important to you.

If the measure you receive is not enough for you for a long time, the relationship will probably always be like this – it is better to end it!

Should I wait to receive love before giving it?

I think this is very wrong and a good formula for suffering! If both people in a couple think this way, no one will give love. Always give love! When you do not want to give anymore, rest. The desire to give will come back.

Do I have to do anything in particular to give Love?

Affection, attention, and presence should be the main things, but each person knows what they like to give. Touch, kiss, hug, take them for a walk, ask what you still do not know, show passion and above all... do not play hard to get, and do not expect anything in return. If it comes, it will be wonderful; if it never comes, maybe it is better to think about leaving the relationship. And you have to enjoy giving too.

The desire to give love is directly related to the feelings for the other person. If you do not have the desire, the love you feel is probably not enough for a relationship. Being with someone without the right feelings is abuse and unworthy. If you do not love, it is better to leave before breaking someone's heart with false expectations.

The more true and transparent a relationship is, the better it will be. And you should set the example, never expect it to be the other person.

Give! Hug! Kiss! Love! NOW!