The curse of beauty

Being attractive is not as good as it seems.

When we talk about relationships, we touch on a discreetly complex, difficult topic where everyone neglects to learn what relationships are.

"Love at first sight" is a romantic expression, but it carries with it a dangerous idea... that Love comes "through the eyes"!

We let ourselves be enchanted by the sensations of wonder of a cute little face, and we want to stay to find out more, know the name, look again, be close.

Of course, the choice between preferring to be beautiful or ugly has an obvious choice, but it has complex consequences to deal with, the main one is attracting a lot of flies, like a light in the darkness.

What is most important in the world? be happy!

We can be happy alone, if that is our choice. But, we can also share a life with someone special, special because our heart says so, but the problems are when the heart and eyes prefer someone different.

What guarantees that two people get along? It is the personality of both, if they are compatible there will be peace, if they are not there will be pain. Beauty does not have much influence on the well-being of a long-term relationship.

No wonder that nowadays, relationships are in crisis, we are on the threshold of understanding what works, but at the same time we go into denial, because we want a beautiful person by our side, and we put our happiness at risk.

To get to know a person you need time and opportunities, love needs time, even when it is camouflaged with passion. This passion requires almost nothing... just a look!

Being beautiful attracts those who don't care and that's why it's a curse, a trap. It distracts from that person who may not be so flashy, but is the one who will fill your heart and your days with happiness, living alive!

And time goes by and with it the list of wrong people grows, relationships start and end, with the beginnings of parties and the endings of funerals, and the next big face comes!

But then, to be happy, we have to have a relationship with someone unattractive? No! That's not relevant! Appearance is not important for a relationship to work in the long term, "happily ever after" is not guaranteed by beauty, but by personality.

We can continue to be dazzled by all the pretty faces around us, but if we want to be happy with someone, we have to meet, talk, discover, experience, and - on a deeper level - be vulnerable, tease, but never play.

The last thing to do is decide with your head, because the heart only knows how to love and Love alone does not guarantee happiness. It's strange, isn't it? but it is possible to love any type of person... good, bad, arrogant, nice, stupid, happy, etc... but that's for another day!